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Another satisfied customer…

Monday, July 23rd, 2007

We got a phone call a while back from a guy named Dan who was eager to help our cause, but he was not entirely sure how. He had significant skills as a builder and thought that he might want to volunteer, but he needed more information. He also had some power tools he was willing to donate, if we needed them. Coincidentally, Bridge To Biloxi’s John Page was just a few days away from leading a group down to New Orleans, and when he heard about these tools, he jumped, figuratively, if not literally, for joy. Dan generously delivered to tools to John’s home and two days later they were on a worksite in the Lower Ninth Ward.

Dan must have gotten the information he needed (or maybe he was pining for his old SkilSaw), because he was first in line for John’s next work-trip down to New Orleans, which was just a few weeks ago. This was our second John-led New Orleans adventure and it was another success.

On their return, I asked Dan to commit his experience to (virtual) paper, and here’s what he had to say:

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Our family’s conversations were neither positive nor reaching a resolution. The bickering was becoming entrenched — gaining a life of its own. A change was needed, and I thought about what I could do to direct the conversations elsewhere — something attention getting.

Katrina revealed pervasive poverty in New Orleans and its somewhat corrupt underbelly. The current administration was consistent in its monumental self-righteous ineptitude. Families were living in trailers when, for us in Belmont, three bedrooms were barely enough. I wanted to do something political, but was concerned about the magnitude of the problem and my lack of political leverage. I wanted to work and see an effect. Rebuilding is as much about perseverance as it is about skill, and at the end of the day there is a result.

My business was perking along - retirement was a possibility but not desirable. The company provided work with meaning, yet there could be more. Perhaps I could do something to change the family’s conversation and have an adventure at the same time… what a concept!

How odd that I have reached this point in this report and have not mentioned the family in the Lower Ninth Ward whose home we sheetrocked and made ready for occupancy. Julian, the homeowner, had been cheated by three different contractors, thereby losing most of his insurance settlement. He used the remaining funds to purchase tools and took on the reconstruction himself. When we met him he was on the ‘heartbreak hill” of a construction project, and needed a good “tail wind”. Our efforts were person-to-person, but started to become political when we saw all the vacant houses in his neighborhood. Our work on his home was an example.


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Our small and revolving team, with the exception of one member’s son, were in their mid fifties to mid sixties. Most of the time we just felt good that we could still do hard physical work — a young feeling that was challenged by our reflection in the mirror when shaving. Most of us had extensive home repair and building experience and some were actual professionals. The only way one could tell the difference was in the decision making speed and the rate at which the rooms took shape. We deferred to the idea, not the person, with leadership changing with different team mixes.

Julian and I had a great understanding. We made sure to agree on the tasks to be accomplished and the way to do something. Yet, if, after the agreement, we each thought it was better to do it another way, that’s how it was done and nothing was said.

He was a preacher and had designated one room as the saints-Saints room for his prayer meetings and watching the New Orleans Saints. We agreed to work on the room for the first saints, but being Patriots fans, not for the second Saints. Near the end of the week bought him a plant to keep in that room and think of us when he was watching the game, knowing there were Patriots fans present.

I like working alone and so took on the task of taping the drywall seams. Many people don’t like taping and favor more dramatic and less repetitive building. I agree, but still enjoyed working out the techniques and growing precision.

The day ran from 6:30 AM standing in front of the coffee shop hoping it would open on time. We wrapped up about 3:00 PM. This timetable avoided the heat that became stronger as the day went on. Most of the team stayed in common lodging at a local church but I opted for a bed a breakfast, just because my sleep patterns are so irregular and I am not in love with communal sleeping anyway.

The local bars were still open at 6:30 AM when we were across the street getting coffee. Unlike the Cambridge bars where conversation is focused and “smart”[”not that there is anything wrong with that”], New Orleans’ bars are community affairs where people begin conversations with you and are welcoming. They are deeply appreciated the volunteers in an open an honest manner.

Finally there was John Page our trip leader. He was the host who knew how to find inexpensive lodging, building supplies and good restaurants. [Thank you John!] His larger contribution was to transform the concrete building work we did into a political statement through continuous networking - in a modest almost self-effacing way he made our work and hence accomplishments known, thereby creating respect for Bridge To Biloxi. John transformed the nail in the board, to bonding with the home’s owners, to the more abstract perception of our organization’s capability in support of a general reconstruction. John helped me bridge the distance between my need to see results from my work, to knowing that it had created potential energy that someday would be turned into a different and larger political result.

Oh and by the way, our family’s conversation has changed a bit. My son will be coming down with me early in December when we have planned a return trip.

Dan Kagan

Another trip, another story to tell…

Tuesday, May 29th, 2007

Once again, just a few weeks ago, FOB2B Sue Cambria went to Biloxi, this time for a week at Habitat for Humanity….she writes:

Hi Y’all ( I know it’s corny but couldn’t resist).

The trip to Habitat last week was only wonderful as they all are. Our group included 9 people, 5 from Indiana, 1 from Massachusetts, 3 from CT. We built 3 sheds from slab to welcome mat. This included vinyl siding the buildings to match the houses. Habitat is having a “Big Build” this week with AmeriCorp volunteers building 20 houses in one week start to finish in Gulfport. Because of this we didn’t start any houses but did “finish up” work. Building the sheds was like building a mini-house start to finish.

The weather was like instant summer and fortunately, not too hot, yet. Every day began with breakfast at the Habitat facility and then a quick run to Joys of Coffee for a cappuccino to start the work day. Volunteering doesn’t mean that you have to suffer. Did I mention the fruit turnovers and croissants? These treats meant that we had to work a little harder because it really looks bad when you go to a disaster area to volunteer and gain 10 pounds. Customers in the coffee shop would see our Habitat shirts and come over to thank us. One man bought us coffee after finding out that we were volunteering. Then on our last day, a customer in the coffee shop who had thanked us for coming each morning sang “So long, Farewell” (Sound of Music) to us when she found out we were leaving. sniff.

The Thursday that we were there the new and much higher Bay St. Louis Bridge opened. This was a huge event for the Coast. It’s the single biggest return to normalcy they’ve seen since the storm. Their Winn-Dixie Grocery store still hasn’t reopened and residents have to drive 20 miles to Gulfport for groceries! Bay St. Louis was where Katrina first touched shore. The town is maybe the size of Newtown, CT and was devastated by a 30 foot storm surge. Residents have since had to drive out of their way for about 20 miles because the 3 mile bridge was out. There was a big celebration with thousands of people from all over the Coast attending including four Habitat volunteers. My son and husband were volunteering at the Habitat Musician’s Village in New Orleans and met us at the party. What a gift to be able to be there for this happy event. The people who live there are so very grateful for every sign of progress and still, ask for nothing.

For the uninitiated, the 30 mile drive from East Biloxi to Bay St. Louis looks like the last piece of undeveloped oceanfront real estate in America. The green leafed (vs storm brown) oak trees have amazed everyone with their recovery and foundations of former homes and businesses have been overgrown with grass and wildflowers. We had to keep reminding ourselves that not too long ago, this strip was heavily developed with a thriving tourist, fishing and recreational boating industry as well as gracious antebellum homes that defined the Coast and the history of its people. The emptiness is most pronounced at night when driving down Hwy 90. There are few and scattered lights in the distance and the silence is unnatural. They still have such a long way to go. On the bright side, or semi-bright, there is more building going on than I’ve seen since my first trip and a new “normal” has settled in. The newspapers have more to report than just Katrina news, more businesses have reopened and there’s more traffic on the roads.

Within 48 hours of arriving in Biloxi, the two first time volunteers in our group had fallen in love with the area and announced they will be coming back to volunteer again and, probably, again. You’ll see.

What Goes Around…

Saturday, April 7th, 2007

Sue is a friend of Bridge To Biloxi (an FOB2B), but more importantly, she’s a friend of many, many people on the Gulf Coast. She’s made numerous trips down to the Biloxi area and she’s going again in just a few weeks, using the very clever tactic of offering to get “bumped” from her flight in exchange for a free ticket for yet another trip to Mississippi in the not too distant future.

What’s most important to learn from Sue however is why she’s compelled to go again and again…it’s a lesson that will ring true for many of you, and it just may inspire a few others who have not yet gone. She writes:


To the people of the Mississippi Gulf Coast:

During my most recent trip to volunteer in Biloxi, a Bay St. Louis resident told me that while the work of volunteers had made such a difference in helping the Coast to recover, it was difficult to accept so much help for so long. It was then that I realized how exhausting it must be to maintain a constant state of gratitude to strangers. The toughest part of accepting help is in not being able to reciprocate.

Don’t worry. You already have - more than you know.

Thank you for teaching me that after losing every earthly possession it is still possible to give of yourself to those who have lost more,

Thank you for showing me the difference between bravery and bravado and that simply waking up to face another day can be a singular act of courage.

Thank you for teaching me stoicism and patience in the face of hardship and unrelenting delays.

Thank you for showing me that Red State/Blue State differences disappear when our fellow countrymen are in need and that homelessness has no color.

Thank you for showing me that living in a FEMA trailer can take your dignity only if you let it.

Thank you for teaching me how petty my complaints are when so many have so silently borne so much.

Thank you for teaching me that grace is possible in situations that we lack an adequate vocabulary to describe.

Thank you for reminding me that good manners and politeness count and that affluence does not always equal breeding.

Most of all, thank you for allowing me to help in any way I can.

And one more thing, when I take pictures of the ruins of the Gulf Coast, I mean no disrespect. The photos help me to tell your story when I go home to people who still don’t comprehend the scope of Katrina and the unbearably slow pace of recovery.

I am forever in your debt.

Susan Cambria, Orange, CT

It’s (virtual) party-time!!!

Saturday, March 17th, 2007

To rebuild a home on the Gulf Coast is work enough, but then the homeowner, who lost everything in the storm, needs everything replaced…from sofas to sponges, bedrooms to bric-a-brac. Friends of Bridge To Biloxi helped Cynthia and family with a hodgepodge of housewarming gifts back in November and December, but we didn’t provide any sort of coordinated program.

Our friends at Wayland To Waveland, a small group doing fantastic work rebuilding homes from the ground up in Waveland, Mississippi, have a very unique solution to the fitting the last pieces of the reconstruction puzzle together. They hold a virtual “Move-In Shower” via an online gift registry at Bed Bath & Beyond, where donors can buy a $5 washcloth, a $280 comforter, or anything in between.

Just this month, Wayland To Waveland finished Hazel Tracey’s home and they’ve got a shower underway right now. If you like a good party, why don’t you stop by (click here) and offer something to help Ms. Hazel make her house a real home again.

A compelling presentation from Long Beach, MS….

Friday, March 16th, 2007

With the scores of medium to large scale volunteer relief and recovery groups working on the Gulf Coast, it’s a surprising rarity to find well-produced video that tells the story of the ongoing struggles facing the victims of Katrina and the uplifting and hopeful stories of everyday volunteers who’ve gone to help. One of the best I’ve seen is from the Lutheran Episcopal group Camp Coast Care in Long Beach, which is between Gulfport and Pass Christian. This organization houses up to 150 volunteers in a gymnasium facility and has a separate but affiliated youth group facility in Bay St. Louis.

Here are two different videos that illustrate nicely what volunteering on the Gulf Coast is like, both in the work to be done and the rewards to be enjoyed…

Bridge To Biloxi does not have a current relationship with this organization…if you have any experience with Camp Coast Care, please tell us about it so that we can better our efforts in organizing work groups.

The need for advocacy…

Tuesday, March 6th, 2007

Bridge to Biloxi has explored many ways that we can offer support to folks on the Gulf Coast, and one of the most important is in the realm of legal advocacy. There are a variety of reasons why this issue is a specific concern, including the fact that many of the victims of Katrina are poor and under-educated, but they happen to own some of the most prized real estate in the South, especially since gambling has come to the Gulf Coast.

Many residents live on land that was bought and paid for generations ago and it’s their family’s only anchoring possession and asset. Immediately prior to Katrina, these families could hardly consider selling their properties…they had no mortgage and their subsistence level jobs were right there in the community. They didn’t have much, but what they had was theirs, and they were getting by.

Since Katrina, there are many monied interests hoping to get a great deal on this prime real estate, and they’re willing and able to wait to get it. The longer the poor property owners have to wait for relief and recovery efforts, the longer insurance companies delay paying or litigating claims, the more red tape that is thrown at them by federal, state, and local government…the less likely they will be able to hold on to the one thing they have left; that paid-for plot of land where their flooded house stands (or stood).

We recently met with Kathleen Johnson in Waveland, MS to discuss the dire situation in that community. One of the topics we got into was the need for legal advocacy, which can be done remotely via a number of Mississippi-based groups, such as the MS Center for Justice. Kathleen is an amazingly committed organizer of volunteers in Hancock County, and it’s revealing to hear her speak of the desparate need for advocates for folks who are being ignored, forgotten, or take advantage of…it’s best to hear her tell it…

Newt blames the “failure of citizenship”

Sunday, March 4th, 2007

Pardon my frustration here, but I cannot let this pass. This week, over 18 months after Katrina, leaders in a certain political party are still blaming everyone but themselves for the gigantic failings that Katrina exposed. The sound-bite below was recorded at the annual Conservative Political Action Conference (CPAC) circus of Conservatives throwing red meat (or is it chum?) to other Conservatives.

Click this: NEWT BLAMES THE VICTIMS

Though it’s true to character for Newt, I still find these comments offensive and strong evidence of the complete failure of his humanity, civility and, yes, patriotism…to cast such aspersions on fellow Americans devastated by the greatest natural disaster this country has ever experienced is bordering on demagoguery. His comments are not only a self-serving slap to the face of a community in which he would find few constituents, but it’s also a huge insult to all those, regardless of political affiliation, who have strived for the last 18 months to help those he labels “failures”. Both he and his audience, which no doubt lapped up every word in a sycophantic stupor, are guilty of shameless, divisive race and class warfare that is hard to stomach.

Cynthia gives a tour

Friday, February 16th, 2007

Peter Hilton, John Page (from Arlington, MA…a new member of the Bridge To Biloxi team) and I paid a visit to Cynthia and her family in early February and we got the cook’s tour along with some gracious commentary. To view the video, click on the arrow

Research trip for future projects

Thursday, February 15th, 2007

From February 7 thru 10th, three members of Bridge To Biloxi’s core team, Peter Hilton, John Page, and Richard Pasley toured the Gulf Coast to assess current needs and find new opportunities for our expanding efforts. The idea is to provide a wide range of opportunities for our volunteers, both in activity and schedule, and yet to be able to fill service teams and to accomplish this by pooling opportunities amongst the Eastern Massachusetts volunteer groups.

With this in mind, we first visited a site in Gulfport managed by YouthBuild - part of a national organization that received a one year grant to rebuild homes in Gulfport using YouthBuild graduates. The project manager, Tony, was exceptional. There are real possibilities of synergy with this organization - our volunteers working with underprivileged youth working to develop professional skills while serving the needs of the least privileged. Unfortunately, YouthBuild needs to limit participants to Youth Build graduates. However, this particular group in Gulfport group considers becoming an independent, non-profit home rebuilder after its grant finishes in July and we may be able to work with them subsequently. In the meantime, we need to keep in touch with them.


  • YouthBuild project in Gulfport
  • Traveling west, we next visited Kathleen Johnson, a one person dynamo in Waveland, who is housing volunteers, taking in cases and completing 3 homes a week. She is tough and just what Waveland, one of the hardest hit towns on the Gulf, needs. She provided impassioned commentary on many of the underlying issues that afflict the Gulf Coast, and her assessment of the pace of recovery efforts was indeed sobering. The frustrations caused by bureaucracies and special interests are clearly bogging down the efforts of those who want nothing more than to help so many in need.


  • Kathleen Johnson in Waveland
  • We went on to the Hancock County Case Roundtable where case workers bring in cases, requesting that the county can partially fund them and volunteer groups implement them (rebuild the homes). The requirements to get a case accepted are onerous and few cases are being submitted. We recommend steering clear of this process.

    Turkey Creek is the name of a region within Gulfport that has an important history as a community created by freed slaves. It suffered Katrina related damage along with other communities. Hands On Gulf Coast and others are helping repair the community. Most recently, Turkey Creek has acquired facilities to house its own volunteers and is beginning to become directly involved in its own repair. Unfortunately, we only had the opportunity to visit their facility for housing volunteers and it was just OK. I understand the leader, Derek Evans, is excellent. Richard and John have met him and I look forward to meeting him but my impression from what I saw of the Turkey Creek program was less appealing than I had hoped for. More research is needed before we commit to working with them.

  • Turkey Creek’s volunteer camp is at a Gulfport ballpark
  • Accommodations are spare, with room for maybe 20 volunteers
  • We had a very full day on Friday, February 9, moving further west. We left HOGC in Biloxi at 6 AM for a 7:30 meeting in Slidell, near New Orleans. We met a young Creole lawyer, Colette Pichon Battle, who runs a small “brown led” program, helping her people (300 families) rebuild their homes. Volunteers can stay with the families and learn a different culture while helping these families - it is very appealing to me. Further, Colette, as a lawyer, can and is willing to guide advocacy work that we might carry out. By the way, Colette spoke on the mall in DC at the last anti-escalation rally. If you Google her, you can easily find her speech. Colette is one of the most amazing people we have met on the gulf coast and it would be an honor to work with her.

    Next we went to New Orleans to Catholic Charities - they are doing lots of good work but are too bureaucratic for us. Then we visited a small, brown-led group in the ninth ward call NENA (Neighborhood Emergency Network Assoc) - a place that really needs help and where our volunteers can make an immediate difference. We also visited Emergency Communities, an organization whose primary function is to feed people in need and also provide meals for volunteers. Emergency Communities also does home rebuilding in New Orleans and on the delta that protrudes south from New Orleans into the gulf.

    We continued on to the UUA operations in New Orleans. The UUA uses a church that had been damaged by flooding during Katrina and now houses volunteers. The UUA creates a very warm place which takes in youth volunteers and provides a context for the work, dealing with poverty and racism.

    On our way back to our home site, HOGC, we stopped in at Back Bay Mission. They are doing much better than when we saw them a year ago and expecting to move into their repaired building within a few weeks. They also have put prefab housing up to house volunteers at their site and just recently arranged to get some additional space to house more volunteers. They will be able to take volunteer teams, beginning in August and they now do home repair etc. Back Bay Mission is a good place to recommend for youth teams.

    Finally (for Friday, anyway), we went on to D’Iberville where they are doing an incredible job of rebuilding homes, but this is too structured an environment for us. Then it was back to HOGC for another 1 hour meeting…wow,what a long day…

    Beside our road trip, we also spent time with HOGC reviewing our work together on Cynthia’s house. Our goal was to identify things we could improve on our next joint project. Areas that we identified as needing improvement included finishing on time and better coordination between the B2B and HOGC.
    We discussed a model by which HOGC would provide the project leader and would put our house into their house building stream. We would fund it and provide a lot of the volunteer effort but we would work more closely with HOGC. They would add volunteers as needed and provide other opportunities for our volunteers when we have more than we need or some who want other experiences. We would collaborate more fully in advance of volunteer trips on what the volunteers will do and what training we should give them. Our project would be signed as B2B and HOGC and we would jointly communicate about it. It looks as though our next house project will begin in April.

    We also agreed that HOGC will make special rules for youth from B2B. We can bring youth who are 16 years or older, with a ratio of 1 chaperon for 3 youths, in groups of 16 or less (unless agreed upon in advance).

    Finally, the best for last. On Saturday morning we spent several hours with Cynthia, Dan, and their two youngest children in the house B2B worked so hard to help them rebuild. They were excited to be in their home, effusive in expressing their appreciation, and charming. Cynthia told us “we would’t have a home if it weren’t for B2B”. We are exceptionally fortunate to be able to impact the life of a family in such a positive way and to have the family recognize and appreciate what we did. We should all feel proud and honored to have been part of this great success!


  • Cynthia in front of her lifelong home
  • David Kramer asks an important question…

    Wednesday, November 1st, 2006

    Today as I was working on the window trim, answering questions about hanging drywall, trying to find out how big the kitchen sink is, trying to get the doors ordered, I had this feeling not unlike the colonel in the movie Bridge Over the River Kwai. He was so proud of how well his troops were working and the progress they were making. I am doing all this work and not getting paid. Eating lunch at Salvation Army. Sleeping in a bunkroom. Why do I feel so good about it? Everyone is working so hard, I can’t get them to stop working so we can go back to camp and take a shower before it gets dark. (The showers are outside). They ask me what to do, I tell them, and they do it. It’s that easy. This is not my house. I will go home and may never see it again. So why does it feel so good? I have dust in my hair, splinters in my hands, and my shirt is soaking wet. Can you tell me why?